I've heard a lot of griping in general, nothing aimed at me in particular. I very rarely post porn. When I do post it, I put it behind a cut out of consideration for those with dial-up. It would honestly never occur to me to label it "work safe" or not.

People get nasty about spoilers too and that's not right. I myself am funny about spoilers. Somethings I want to know everything about (like Stargate: Atlantis) and somethings I avoid spoilers like the plague (like Serenity). But I really feel like it's up to me to avoid spoilers, not up to my friends list to protect me from them. But I think I'm more apt to cut for spoilers because it's one of those rules of fannish behavior that says it's impolite to spoil.