It's pretty much my favorite gay movie *ever*. How do you feel about the fact that nobody except the rotten sister ever says "gay"? It's the only thing that I'm iffy about - on the one hand, maybe the writer's were trying to be "post-gay", or make the statement that we shouldn't have to define ourselves by our sexuality, but on the other hand, claiming the truth about yourself is powerful and freeing, and we should be able to say it out loud without fear. And on the gripping hand, they have the OMG sweetest and most romantic guy/guy moment I've ever seen on screen, so who cares what they call themselves.